Thursday, September 18, 2008
Today I met with my old friend.
Today when I was in shopping mall I met one of my old friend.She is indian.When I came to the US that was my first friend.She lived near to my home at that time.Then I changed my home,but today I met her after a long time.She was just married now.She told me about her.She lived with her parents and she left them.She also left her studies because she need to do work.The reason was she loved a boy and she wants to marry that boy,but her parents didnt agree with her to get marriend with that boy thats why she left the home.Then she get marriend.Now her parents didnt talked with her,but she told me she is so happy with that boy.That boy is so nice,but she told me sometimes she missed her parents so much and her husband didnt give the time to tink about this and get sad.He always try to be with her and made her happy.I think thats true love.
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What a hard decision it is to have to choose between your family and your love! I feel bad for people who have this problem. Did her parents want her to have an arranged marriage? Do your parents want you to have one?
Well like elaine say it's a hard decision, but I think she should think before married him becouse sometime love is not forever and now she is having hard time becouse she can't study. I think she should think about her future before take a decision like that.
and about the problem that her parents didn't like him, don't worry do what dominicans do your parents don't have to know about."secret love" like that she can continue study,and her parents are going to be happy with her...♥
hey guys don't listen to me an a crazy one... hahaha
You're a tricky one, Rosa! I'm going to tell your parents. Just kidding!
I just read your blog.I guess your old friend who you met a little girl is from India that we studied together in 2 semesters ago.
If, it's true .I knew her.On Monday you will tell me her name .
I am really argee with Elaine's opinion but it happen at The USA.I am Asian people, I can understand what did her parents think because traditional's Asian, the women want to get married with someone .They must have to argeement their parents.And my marriment too.
Don't answer if it's too personal, Linh, but are you saying your marriage was arranged, or just that you and your husband wanted your parents' approval before you got married?
ya in india mostly get arrange marrige.I dont know about my future maybe I also have a arrange marraige or maybe love
Wow! What do you feel are the advantages and disadvantages of arranged marriages?
I dont want to get arrange meraige because with in two days we dont know eachother.In meraige first thing is understanding.But i dont know about my parents what they told.but on otherside I also love my parents.If my parents not agree with my love then i dont leave my parents and didnt cheat that boy,so i never get meraige in my life.I give a promise to myself that if my parents never agree then I never get meraige in my life because i cant cheat to my love to get meraige with other person..If it happens that my parent not agree with me then I think I also never be happy in my life because love happens in one time.
wow, nice promise.i agree with preet that in arrange married if we don't know each other and then get marry.i think, it will be not a good dicision to marry a unknown person.who knows after got married how will be he/she.it doesn't mean that i am strongly disagree about arrange married.arrange married also good ,but not all time.my opinion is ,before married we have to know each other very well.
Interesting. Preet, you really are saying something very dramatic if I understand you correctly. You're saying, I think, that if your parents don't approve of a man you love, you won't marry him, but that you also will never get married. Does everyone agree that love happens only one time in life like Preet said?
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